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Heart + Mind Women is an exciting new way to meet lesbians and queer women. It's different than all of the dating sites out there. We want you to find the right partner, and be the right partner. This site is designed to help you with finding her.

These are the things that make this site different, and make it the best place for you to find the woman you’re looking for:

  • There aren't any men, and no one outside our community can see your profile.
  • There are no fake profiles. Every member is a verified lesbian or queer woman.
  • Our robust profiles and search help you find the right woman by factors that we know are critical to compatibility.
  • We have Community Standards to create a safe, conscious, compassionate community.
  • Our members are serious about finding the right partner – and being the right partner - there are lots of resources, and free courses, too!
  • There are lots of dating tips right here on the site.
  • We have optional video profiles, to make your profile really stand out!
  • This site is West-Coast Focused at present.

Here's a tour of the features of Heart + Mind Women

Chris J.Oakland, CA

First of all, THANK YOU for building this Conscious Online dating website! It's truly revolutionary!

We are not accepting new memberships at this time.

Margaret S.Portland, OR

I’m just glad that you two are a gift to the community doing what you are led to do. I appreciate so greatly that you have put together such a safe and fundamental place where womyn can feel comfortable about being online with their laundry aired. From the bottom of my heart Ruth and Michelle, I honor you as my mentors.

Have questions?

We are happy to answer any questions you have. Use the live chat feature, or go to our support area to learn more.

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Your privacy is important to us and we will never rent or sell your information.



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